Oh weaning! [insert very mild barely audible sigh]
Even before I had a baby, I totally looked forward to the weaning and introduction of solids to my kids. I remembered some of the fun things we had done when my little sister started eating solids and how in particular we’d mash up potatoes for her.
With new generation Instagram mums and social media it also seemed uber cool. Lots of ideas, recipes, tools and information surrounding weaning. Cookbooks too – with modified Nigerian recipes (our kids got to love Nigerian food yes!).
So yes, I was determined to be that “extra” and diligent mum who made colourful purees and fed her child nicely in the cutest baby high chair.
And when our son arrived, I didn’t see why not. He didn’t seem fussy at all. He latched pretty much immediately and started sucking. When I introduced bottle feeding he didn’t particular care if he was being fed from the breast or a bottle.
He also took very well to formula, which I introduced due to a not-so-great supply of breast milk. I recall when the health visitor came around by his 6 week check up she mentioned that it was recommended to give children Vitamin D drops from birth to 4 years to help their bones grow and develop properly (especially as we were into winter season already, and there was barely any sunshine). But when I explained that he was having up to 500ml a day she said it wasn’t necessary as formula is fortified with vitamin D. But if you’re exclusively breastfeeding it’s recommended as you can’t tell if your diet contains sufficient vitamin D. Anyway I had this info at the back of my mind as I approached weaning and had my eyes on the Wellbaby vitamin D drops. I’d used the Pregnacare multivitamins all through my pregnancy so it was going to be a smooth transition on the same brand.
So here’s how my weaning went, what I learnt and tips to help you:
1. Baby’s love for Milk is not equal to love for solid food
This is just based on my own observation. The way he enjoyed his milk and guzzled this up was the same way I thought introduction to solids would be a breeze. I guess not, and the very many funny faces he pulls on first taste of a food item is evidence of that. I guess that’s general logic though. For example I’m such a foodie myself, doesn’t mean I’m open to easily trying new tastes and texture.
2. Spoon Led & Baby led weaning
I first learnt of this distinction via Instagram thanks to Temi who we featured in this post. These are the two major approaches to weaning, and while more babies tend to simply favour spoon led weaning – where they are fed from a plate and spoon, others are pretty keen on exercising their independence that they only want to eat themselves. Well, hello baby-led weaning then! And this was where my independent son chose to camp. I’ve never seen any baby firmly dislike being fed with a spoon. Trust me, we’ve tried all the tricks including the ever popular letting them hold a spoon to play with while you try to get the other spoon into their mouth. So he’d eat up a whole slice of apple, toast, rice cakes (or anything else with a firm texture that he can hold) in a second, but do not attempt to give him a spoon of mashed purees.
3. Home made purées can be task and half:
So, speaking of purees, you know how excited I was to try – my little baby food blender, storage bowls, and fresh fruits! All of the books and yummy Instagram mummies make it look so easy and technically it should be. But perhaps because my child din’t relish it up – it began to feel like a chore. I kept wasting most of it and occasionally tried out the store bought ones (still with no luck!). But for the days I made my it all fresh, I gave myself an extra pat of the back. And you should too!
4. The right time to wean
I still wonder if he didn’t really take to purees or solids in general because I started a bit late. It’s recommended that solids are introduced when baby gets to six months. But at the same time, health professionals caveat and sometimes say your baby might be ready at an earlier age. By four months he seemed very interested in what we were eating and trying to grab our food. Maybe if I had let him at that time instead of waiting properly for another two months he’d have taken to it better. Or maybe not to be honest…
5. Be prepared for messy
If you’re going to let your baby explore a wide range of foods and textures, then people, be prepared for messy. There’s probably no cute way to experience weaning! And trust me, I tried. I tried to have him eat on his high chair and close to the dining table like everyone else. But seeing how many little stains I had to get off the light coloured carpet and how cautious I was becoming, no one told me to move to the high chair to the tiled floor area! So yeah, be prepared. And while you’re at that, arm yourself with a lot of wipe clean bibs. Using cloth bibs for a weaning baby will either lead to a spike in your electricity bill or a tired wrist from hand-washing them!
6. Unleash the inner singer in you:
Do not doubt. You are an excellent singer and composer. Or at least it’s in there somewhere and all you have to do is spend a few days with a weaning baby to see that come through. I’m amazed at all one has to do just to get a baby to eat a few tiny spoons of food. The songs you sing – who cares that it’s offtune or that you almost bite your lip in the process. I recall once my husband was trying to feed him some purées and sing about the animal sounds and he goes “the rabbit goes “rab rab rab”. I howled in laughter like what?! Throw in the funny faces you have to make and honestly you might as well make it a full time career.
7. Each child is different. Healthy is best
After all said and done, and at the very end of the day, what is absolutely crucial is a healthy well-fed baby. It’s so easy to get caught up in a comparison game with babies. And wondering why you’re child isn’t eating a full bowl of fancy porridge and toppings or enjoying amala and okro that Nigerian mothers swear by. All children are different.
But don’t let the crazy weaning process put you off. Continue to introduce them to a wide range of food for a varied palette, including vegetables too! And especially at this weaning age when it’s tricky how much nutrients your little one is getting, topping up their diet with essential multivitamins is so key. Also when you live in colder regions or don’t get much exposure to sunlight, Vitamin D is super important!
I still use the spoon trick to get any medicines into his mouth, as you can see from these photos – and attempt to give him the Wellbaby multivitamin drops. This particular pack is for 4 months – 12 months babies and I love that it comes with a helpful syringe which makes the process a little less messy.
In other news, I can’t believe we’re already at 11 months and almost one year! We kinda just had him (birth story here). I hear the next crazy thing is potty training and I’ll tell you for free that we are not looking forward to that stage.
How did weaning go for you? Share your experiences, please. And did you supplement your little one’s diet with multivitamins?
pS: This post is sponsored by Vitabiotics, and they’re keen to highlight the importance of vitamin D for growing babies.
PpS: Can I shout out to my mother-in-law for these photos?
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TomieOctober 3, 2018 at 09:36
Yessss to sponsored post. My cousin is going to be a first time mummy in the next couple of months and I’ll definitely be sharing this link with her. Quick question because of the kind of weather we have in Nigeria I.e abundance of early morning sun is the Vitamin D supplement necessary over here?
Blazers & BabyOctober 8, 2018 at 12:07
I asked my pediatrician the same thing and he said to be intentional about it. So first of all, baby needs to be exposed to the sun before 10am. At least, 4 days a week for up to 30 minutes at a time. So if your baby is outdoors a lot of the time before 10am, you’re on the right track.
Kachee || KacheeTee.comOctober 10, 2018 at 10:07
Thanks for sharing! And that’s true. I recall we used to take my sister out in the early morning sun.
Kachee || KacheeTee.comOctober 10, 2018 at 10:07
Thank you love! And as said below, it’s the early morning sunshine that contains the Vitamin D, so you’d she’d have to be intentional about spending time in the morning sun!
'DaraOctober 3, 2018 at 15:14
I am sure the best songs are composed when feeding a child. Lol! Love your pictures! Looks like snapshots from a ‘wellbaby’ commercial.
Kachee || KacheeTee.comOctober 10, 2018 at 10:03
Yay Thank you Dara!
Berry DakaraOctober 4, 2018 at 19:40
I am so lucky that with Cocoa, she just likes food, period! My mum and mother-in-law started her on pounded yam and okro soup when she was 6 months old. Honestly, I wasn’t quite ready for that, but now I’m not complaining.Cocoa immediately took to new food introductions (apart from couscous) but the first things I introduced her to were mashed bananas, potatoes, etc. My cousin told me she pureed a lot of foods when her daughter was a baby, but seeing as I don’t like being in the kitchen much, that wasn’t going to be an option for me.Happy Almost Birthday J!!!!www.berrydakara.com
Kachee || KacheeTee.comOctober 10, 2018 at 10:05
You’re so lucky with Baby Cocoa! Pounded yam – that’s so cool. Lol @ her not liking couscous! Thanks for the wishes love! Xx
ThriveOnYourJourneyOctober 6, 2018 at 22:31
👍 to the sticking with VitD drops for LO! Even adults here are advertised to use VitD supplements, with the very short summer months!
Kachee || KacheeTee.comOctober 10, 2018 at 10:03
Yes indeed! Thank you.
AishaOctober 9, 2018 at 23:31
Lool I burst out laughing when I got to number 6. Get your singing on parents!!! 😂😂😂😂😂 Shoutout to your MIL, the pictures are really nice and I was thinking you used your tripod. (I think you mentioned getting it, yes? 😂😂)
Kachee || KacheeTee.comOctober 10, 2018 at 10:02
Lool! Yeah I got the tripod but still not great with it so her helping was a better option!
Bubu GreenOctober 19, 2018 at 18:57
Oh dear. I totally can relate. Weaning has not been easy with my 3rd kid. The others took to store bought purees, homemade, and any sort of semi solid meal but my 3rd is 8 months old now and won’t want anything but breast milk. I noticed he’s pledged allegiance to having breast milk as his only sweet while he tries savoury food; loving Egusi soup, minced beef but he will spit out anything sweet. We are still trying options. http://www.bubusboulevard.com
Kachee || KacheeTee.comOctober 22, 2018 at 08:26
Oh dear. It’s tough isn’t it. Maybe I’ll try some Egusi soup and minced beef!