Hello Hello!

How are you doing this Friday!? I woke up feeling all pumped and I’m wondering if it had anything to do with the Jollof rice I cooked at 12 midnight and ate into the early hours of today. I think I’ve mastered my Jollof rice recipe and it takes me no time to whip one up.

The only downside is that I tend to overeat it – as was the case this morning when the husband had to actually give me the side eye and ask why I kept going back for more food!

But asides that I’m really just thankful for health and blessings as the weirdest thing happened on the way into work yesterday. I think I snapped/sprained a back muscle and suddenly couldn’t walk. Had to request first aid, paramedics and eventually spent 4 hours in the clinic! Thankfully it was nothing and my back is great. But just made me more thankful for the daily things we take for granted.

There’s really been nothing that exciting in these parts. It’s been the usual. On the blog, I seem to be letting my emotions (and laziness) get the better of me. There’s so much to write, but I just keep procrastinating. I also got really tired of promoting blog posts and asking people to read. It really is the worst bit. So you may have noticed I slowed down last month – plus I just really wanted a bit of a break. Hopefully, I get my ‘mojo’ back. But please share blog posts you find helpful and invite people to read the blog too! Working on picking up the newsletter again, so I hope you’re subscribed to the blog!

It’s a new month as well… Hola April!

I’m looking at my goals for the year and decided to take up my swimming lessons again. But all the classes are on weekdays when I have absolutely no free time! Sigh. This is what happens when you leave to adulthood skills I should have learnt as a child. I might have to pay extra for weekend lessons. And that’s £20 for a 30 mins slot! Worth it or nah?

Oh and re that last link which was a collaboration with Berry,  I was super excited when she announced her pregnancy last week! She had been TTC and now we all can’t wait to meet Baby Cocoa! So much joy from friends and people she’d connected with via blogging. It’s amazing!

Anyway, I haven’t got a chance to read much – but Afoma and I did stumble on a few things.

So, here’s some (fun) things have been on the web these past couple of weeks:

~ Speaking of Jollof Rice, you absolutely have to read this short story – The Making of Jollof Rice / How a daughter became unlike her mother.  

~ Still on food, I know celebratory desserts can be pretty and exciting. And we got one in Cornwall for our anniversary. But some people must really like them! These two best friends faked a marriage proposal just to get free dessert. And here’s a video if you care. Tsk tsk

This 2 year old girl  shut down a cashier who suggested she pick a white doll that looked like her, to the black doll she’d chose! The child’s response was epic and though some have debunked the story, I think there’s a lesson or two to learn from there.

~ World Autism awareness day was 2nd April and Temi shared what it feels like living with her brother who is on the spectrum. It’s a humbling and enlightening piece. Also Sesame street added a muppet with Autism. Cool.

~It’s interesting how many women are obsessed with their weight. I for one keep thinking I need to have mine in check because Tee is one of those people who it appears would never gain excess weight. This piece my boyfriend weighs more than I do is a good one to read. Sometimes, we bother about the unnecessary.

~ Bloggers seeking growth and exposure, Quora and Medium may be channels to express. This lady experimented and blogged everyday for a month – with impressive results.

~ Do you want kids? Are you on the fence? Wondering how your life will forever change? This woman at 27 was sure she wasn’t cut out for kids. Then she changed her mind. Great read.

~ Trying to find a job as an immigrant in a new country is one I can relate with. And Zinny shares 7 helpful tips to get your dream job as an immigrant. I wholeheartedly agree with number 1 – That was definitely my selling point!

For more links, including videos and podcasts, Afoma shares her monthly round up for March on her blog. You should totally check it out!

What are you up to this weekend? I think I have to drag myself to get a bit of mani & pedi pampering session. We might be travelling next week for a wedding – so it’ll be good to look pretty decent – or like my mum likes to say “you shouldn’t look like you’re carrying the worlds’ troubles on your head”. That said, I may have to shop for a new outfit or two – because girl problems!

I’ll also continue some de-cluttering! We managed to get rid of so much stuff in the house last weekend – and everywhere feels so light and airy. Almost feels like I haven’t slept that good in years. I got a book called ‘The Life Changing Magic of Tidying’ and even though I haven’t gone past a few pages, maybe the magic is already getting to me!

I hope you have a fantastic weekend. what are you up to? What are you watching / reading or working on?

And albeit a bit late,  have a wonderful month of April too! Don’t think less of yourself and keep pushing!


Kachee.. xx


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  1. Afoma

    April 7, 2017 at 12:25

    Omgoodness the friends with the fake proposal had me laughinggg wow. I wouldn’t have the heart to do that sha. I am so due for a pedicure myself, I need to treat myself; can’t be carrying the world’s problems on my head. Thanks for the love, girll xafomaumesi.com

  2. Madeline Wilson-Ojo

    April 7, 2017 at 13:56

    Sometimes we all lose our mojo – be encouraged, it will come back soon! Thanks for sharing those stories. I really enjoyed the one about the toddler with the doll. Children sometimes teach us the best moral lessons.http://madelinewilsonojo.bl

  3. Berry Dakara

    April 7, 2017 at 20:28

    Thanks!I hope you feel a lot better – that must have been scary, snapping your back.Looking forward to catching up on some of the links, since I already read a few during the week – looks like we read the same things :pwww.berrydakara.com

  4. Aisha

    April 10, 2017 at 05:25

    Best believe people are reading your blog and some of us share when it’s something our friends would love to read too. Able to catch up completely so yaay! Yes to swimming because I also plan to learn this summer. Thinking of the $$ though *tears*. Loved Zinny’s post, it’s not easy getting jobs after migrating but I’m learning. Thanks for the links and feel better about everything. ❤️

  5. Precious

    April 10, 2017 at 05:42

    Keep pushing, Kachee, keep pushing. I just learnt about Berry’s pregnancy here and I’m so excited as though I’m the one who is pregnant. These are very interesting links! Thanks for sharing, dear. Hope you have the best of months!preciouscore.com

  6. Live In Ibadan

    April 11, 2017 at 08:13

    You just reminded us that you are human like everyone of us. Sometimes, seeing so much perfection in a write-up gives us the inkling that bloggers are superhumans without knowing what goes down behind. I was the happiest the day I heard berry’s Peggy news. Off to check her page.www.liveinibadan.blogspot.com

  7. Zinny

    April 12, 2017 at 19:59

    Aww, thanks Kachee, I just discovered that you gave me a shout out. I appreciate the gesture and I’m glad to hear that you enjoyed reading the post. By the way, I enjoyed this post as always, keep blogging; you are definitely good at it!Do have a great week ahead!www.zinnyfactor.com

  8. Mz Charidee

    April 15, 2017 at 08:27

    I have been MIA, Oh how i missed this blog, time to read up, thank God for the holidays

  9. Yummy Mum Life

    April 19, 2017 at 00:03

    The mojo gets missing all the bloody time.I just don’t force it when it does because it always comes back.hehe!www.CheecheeLive.com

  10. Janet

    April 21, 2017 at 23:48

    Hi Kachee, I nominated you for the Blogger Recognition Award here http://www.lifestylebyjanet… I hope you accept it. Have an awesome weekend.